成熟是一種狀態，當你突然意識到周圍發生的一切，能夠理解這些事情背后的緣由，不會因結果得意洋洋抑或一蹶不振，你就成熟了。你已經能夠化解壓力，不被周圍的環境所干擾。看看下面的信號判斷一下自己成熟沒有吧：
1.You listen more and talk less
多聽少說
When we realize as human beings we are built to hear more (because we have two ears) and speak less (we have one mouth/tongue); we gain more information and whatever we speak will be based on substantial reasoning. This will provide a glimpse of a thinking individual/rational person to the audience.
當我們意識到作為人，我們需要多聽(因為有兩個耳朵)少說(只有一張嘴/一根舌頭)，我們就能獲得更多的信息，說出的話也能基于靠譜的推斷，這會讓聽眾覺得這個人很有思想和邏輯性。
2.You do not shy away from responsibilities
你不再羞于承擔責任
When you think in these terms, you behave in a more responsible manner. You not only perform your duties for your family or country, you also take care of mother earth. This makes you a matured individual on this planet。
當你這樣去思考問題，其實也就變得更加負責任了。你不僅在家庭或國家中承擔了你的職責，你還照顧到了我們的地球母親。這會讓你成為更加成熟的人。
3.You are less argumentative and more accommodating
你不再那么好辯
By arguing less, you are providing the required space and prestige to others, and at the same time you are buying more time for yourself to look at the other’s argument from another angle. And additionally, you command more respect from others. This shows you are now a matured individual。
少辯論，也給別人提供了必須的空間和威望，同時你也能給自己爭取更多時間來從別的角度審視別人的觀點。除此之外，你還能從他人身上獲得更多的尊重。這也能表明你變得更加成熟了。
4.You enjoy each season
你享受每個季節
There is a cycle of seasons and life forms adapt to that. No one can control seasonal cycles and no one should control them. So if you are enjoying changes in season, however abrupt they might seem, you have grown into a matured individual。
季節的輪替就是這樣，我們生命早已習慣如此。沒有人可以控制季節的循環也不能去控制。所以如果你很享受季節的變換，不管變得多么突然，你已經變得更成熟了。
5.You wear a smile on your face
臉上帶著微笑
Life is a topsy-turvy event. You plan for today in the morning, and by the afternoon you have to modify it to accommodate something unplanned. Whatever the situation may be, wearing a smile has a positive impact on your body and mind.
生活總是出其不意的。你早上做了今天的計劃，下午有可能就需要為一些未知事件修改計劃。不論情況如何，都帶著微笑，這樣能給身體和精神帶來積極的影響。
6.You love children and elders
你尊老愛幼
Quite often, spending time with people who are not in your age bracket helps you visualize life in an entirely different manner. These moments, later on, shall be counted in your experiences。
大部分時候，花時間和不同年齡段的人在一起能幫你更好的以全然不同的方式看待生活。這些時刻，不久之后都會成為你的閱歷。
7.You save more than what you expend
你存的比花的多
This one does not need any detail explanation. Saving more than the expenditures will itself lend credibility to your maturity status。
這一條不需要什么具體的解釋了。存的比花的多毫無疑問是你成熟的最可靠標志。
8.You indulge more in reading
你更多的時間花在閱讀上
To be updated is of utmost priority in today’s knowledge-driven society. And probably one of the best ways to get informed is to read. If you are spending more time reading, this indicates you are serious about your business which is a sign of maturity。
在當今這樣知識驅動的社會，適應是排在首位的。要想獲得更多的信息，最好的方式莫過于閱讀。如果你更多的時間花在閱讀上，這就意味著你對自己的事情更加上心，也是成熟的標志。
9.You take care of yourself as well as others
你照顧自己和別人
In the run of life, you may give less importance to yourself relative to your family members. However, you must realize you are no less significant. Therefore, you must take out time for yourself, and take care of your body and mind. This will, in turn lead to better performance in your duties which will render you as a responsible and matured person。
在生命的長河中，也許你覺得家人會比自己更加重要。然而，你必須意識到你是獨一無二的。因此，你必須抽出時間來照顧自己，不僅身體還有思想。這能夠反過來促進你更好地履行責任，讓你成為有責任心的成年人。
10.You seek the signs of maturity
你試圖尋求成熟的標志
You’re reading this article; this action itself shows you are serious about being considered mature. You now seem to shoulder your responsibilities and want to know the meaning of your existence. Therefore, you are looking for things you should know/do in order to become a responsible and mature citizen. This is a sign of you now being a mature individual。
你在看這篇文字，這個行為本身就代表你想要變得更加成熟。也許你想要承擔責任，想知道自己存在的意義。因此，你在尋求那些要成為有責任成熟公民需要知道/做哪些事。這本身就說明你正在走向成熟。